BRIGHTYABAYOR'S BLOG

Over the years avenues to wealth globally with mankind has transited from the era of hunting and subsistent farming, to industry to service delivery to information and now communication technology. All through these seasons, men have made commendable effort to acquire and grow wealth so as to apprehend a life of comfort, peace and rest of mind. Many succeeded, however, many, many more failed at this attempt. Even today, many people, perhaps you also, have lovely dreams of becoming wealthy. Everyone wants to be comfortable at least, and truth be told, to be comfortable in Nigeria; you must be rich. I’ve seen many buy books, attend seminars, study the lives of some successful people, pray hard, and do all they know how, so as to break the lack and insufficiency barrier. Some succeeded and many more have failed and are still trying. Even some that are wealthy today became so based on luck or chance. They do not have an understanding or a guaranteed template on how to recreate the...

A Kenyan man was as of late gotten pants down with his neighbor's better half in his home while they were getting serious. As per Kenyan-post, the lady's better half has been associating her with an unlawful undertaking for long and chose to lay a trap to get her got. On one unwavering day, the man who had professed to be out for work, got a tip off when his significant other was spotted advancing into the man's home. The man raged into the house with a few companions and found them in trading off circumstance. In the viral video, the shirtless neighbor is seen just on his pants, while the lady tieing just a wrapper as she sat on the bed in disgrace and sooner or later, she took a stab at battling her better half yet was kept down by neighbors who assembled at the scene. https://www.facebook.com/enews.kenya.7/videos/1939218099685598/

As humans our minds a renewable. We can easily be influenced, brainwashed and made to accept new facts, new truths, new theories and even new lies. Our mind is like a sponge, readymade and prepared to absorb any information we come across either good, bad, true, untrue, productive, destructive, scary or motivating. Our minds are designed to absorb and retain what we mostly hear and see daily. We then go ahead to interpret these information within the context of our emotions, exposure, ambition and fears and consequently order our lives in consonance with what we’ve accepted as the truth or as the reality within the confines of our exposure. Dear friend, not everything you believe is the truth. Not everything you’ve accepted is the fact and guess what, today’s truth and facts may become tomorrow’s errors and lies because life keeps evolving, changing and progressing. What works today may fail woefully tomorrow. Driverless cars, self-driving cars for example are about to hit the m...

I adore lemons. Indeed, you can discover me pressing, jabbing, and pushing these succulent sweeties anytime. I put them on practically everything. I adore the adaptability of flavor, and, obviously, the advantages. One of my most loved and most open approaches to suck down this vitamin C powerhouse is through lemon water. Press an entire lemon into some water (hot or cool) and chug it down, or gradually taste on it for the duration of the day. There are many stunning advantages to this short and simple custom, however underneath are my most loved five:  1. It's an extraordinary wellspring of vitamin C.  Actually no, not the pop vocalist. Lemons are high in vitamin C, which is incredible for giving our body the insusceptible lift it needs to remain within proper limits. At the point when vitamin C levels are low, practically zero repair occurs in the body. These citrus delights are likewise high in potassium, which animates mind and nerve work. Potassium diminishes free ...

Another investigation led at Indiana University found that demonstrations of delicacy, for example, nestling and stroking are essential to bliss in a long haul relationship. There were a couple of astonishing realities that the discoveries uncovered also.  Delicacy appeared to be all the more exceedingly respected . men, while ladies will probably say that they were content with their s*x lives. Men said that they were glad in a relationship more frequently than their female partners.  The members were moderately aged or more seasoned, and couples who were as one A delicate touch can be pivotal to long haul relationships for a normal of around 25 years. The news . reports that it is the first of its kind to ponder the s*xual well being and relationship welfare of more established couples.  "You hear rehashed research and discourse about separation; yet it's critical to take note of that however separate rates are high in the U.S., couples tend to remain wedded – ...

Why do you lay so much emphasis on s*x and se*uality? From my opinion, I think s*x is a basic thing; why give so much attention to it?’ This was a question I was asked while I was in South Africa giving a talk on s*x and s*xual health matters. The first big misconception many people have is thinking that s*x is basic and natural and should not be learnt. It is as a result of this discourse that s*x education has long been obstructed as if it is not necessary to understand the mechanisms at which it works. Then again, this has caused a lot of damages to many homes. In reality, s*x is cultural; it is the fruit of a learning process and it is something we all have to learn. Until we start learning, we might not be able to unravel the mechanism behind the female’s se*uality or the way the erection functions. As such, today, we want to see seven ways couples can enjoy instant raging passion . being able to differentiate various types of libidos. I would advise you read this toget...

The Embassy of the Kingdom of the Netherlands in Nigeria, on Tuesday, reminded Nigerians that it is no longer in the business of issuing them visas. The Embassy’s Charge d’ Affaires, Mr Michel Deleen, told the News Agency of Nigeria in Lagos that the Embassy had since 2013 swapped its visa issuance processes in Nigeria. Deleen said that the Embassy has swapped its visas issuance to Nigerians with the French Consulate General in Lagos and the Embassy of Belgium in Abuja. “Let me remind Nigerians that since 2013, the Embassy of the Kingdom of the Netherlands in Nigeria had signed agreements with the French Consulate-General in Lagos and the Embassy of Belgium in Abuja. “What this means is that we have swapped our visa application processes in Nigeria with the French Consulate-General in Lagos and the Embassy of Belgium in Abuja. "...under these agreements, any Nigerian that wants to visit the Netherlands for business, study or tourism should always process their visa app...

The famous actor Arnold Schwarzenegger posted a picture of him sleeping in the street under his famous bronze statue, and wrote sadly (How times changed). The reason he wrote the sentence was not only because he was old, but because when the governor of California opened the hotel with the statue in front of him. The hotel officials told Arnold: "At any time you can come and have a room reserved in your name". When Arnold left judgment and went to the hotel, the administration refused to give him a room arguing that the hotel was fully booked. He brought a cover and slept under the statue and asked people to imagine it. He wants to convey a message that when he was in a position they were praising him, and when he lost this position they forgot and did not fulfill their promise to him. Yes, times have changed. Do not trust your position or your owner or your power or your intelligence. All of this will not last. In life after death.

Take a moment and consider your life today. Do you like your life now? Do you like it as it is? I know it is impossible to have everything perfect perpetually in life but how would you rate the quality of your life right now? At this age, at this time, how far have you come in comparison with the dreams, hope and expectations you once upon a time had? Are you close to the dreams, are you living it, have you exceeded expectations or you appear derailed? Are you still in control of your life or you’ve totally lost control? The power and control of your tomorrow lies where and with who? Have you made some mistakes and it appears impossible to bounce back, retrace your steps or correct the error. Are you entrapped in people, situations, jobs, marriages and friendships that have kept you low, down and incapacitated? Have you experienced disappointments, betrayals, failures and embarrassments and consequently given up on that dream, that vision and ambition? Are you living in fe...

Paul Okoye of the  music  group PSquare has turned down a desperate Nigerian upcoming artiste @ArabMoneeey on Instagram who begged to be his slave for support from him in his musical career. But Paul’s response wasn’t what he expected as he got turned down. See their conversation below: